I found a list somewhere of
incidental graveyard hate. I don't
think that
this one is the one I'm thinking of, but does also emphasise that.
Callous Bloodmage is probably my go-to.
Soul-Guide Lantern is pretty low-cost too, but I prefer it (and
Nihil Spellbomb) in places where I can recur it (
Salvaging Station usually, or Lurrus, etc).
Shred Memory also ought to fit in a lot of places. 3-mana transmute kind of wants a good range of targets and is never
amazing but often plenty viable.
Cling to Dust is pretty solid too (kinda like a
Cremate that can turn into actual card advantage - though creatures are usually the things you'll want to hit, admittedly).
I'm not so keen on the symmetric stuff; I rarely face a deck with
no graveyard recursion, but I also rarely play one. Sure, it's like a board wipe, you use it when it's less bad for you - but being that it's
also a lot more niche, it's a tougher sell.
I did actually build a deck who's whole idea was graveyard hate, just for kicks. You can weaponise that with cards like
Web of Inertia and
Mist of Stagnation. Kinda turned into a stax deck, though...