Ran into a disagreement over card interaction last night. Here's the situation:
Late game, opponent at 4 life, I'm at 13. Opponent's board is a
glyph keeper (counters the first spell or ability that targets it), no cards in hand and tapped out except for 2 white mana and has 2 sacred cats in graveyard - i assume at this point they'll be embalmed in 2nd main phase. I have 2 Obelisk spiders out,
lightning strike and a land in hand and 6 mana in the full jund spectrum. Opponent is playing a lifegain sideboard option for UW approach.
Opponent swings in with the 5/3 flyer and I block with my reach spider, thinking i have the game won. I expected my spider to die, triggered ability to put a -1/-1 counter on the Sphinx which would survive combat, and the unengaged spider 2nd triggered ability would
fire. That would bring my opponent to 3 life, and the
lightning strike would finish it.
Concensus of other players at the store was that the Sphinx's ability fizzles the -1/-1 counter triggered ability. That was game 2, opponent drew into lifegain, so I lost that round.
I think the Sphinx isn't targeted by the spider's 1st ability, so the Sphinx's ability does not apply. The same would happen in combat with a hexproof creature, in my understanding of the rules.
If I got this wrong, and they were right, can someone point me to where I went wrong in my thinking?