my suggestion is yo!! use more counter ore you're opponents will burn you with fire!!
Mhh.. I disagree with you. The point is, EDH/Commander is a multiplayer format. This means every
counterspell is a card disadvantage. Yes, especially in a control/stax themed deck, you'll need some, but you don't need to counter everything. If they burn their ressources to remove your stax pieces, see it as a sign that you're doing right. Just drop the next (even worse) and watch them cry, because they can't remove this one as well.